Tend — Raising Him / Raising Her
A workbook for couples raising kids who want to parent from the same page — without the fight that usually happens when they don't.
Get notified when the workbooks launch — free first chapter on download.
The Core Insight
Most parenting books tell you how to raise your kid. Almost none of them tell you how to stay united while doing it. The ones that address this treat it like a footnote. It's not a footnote.
The parenting disagreement is often the marriage disagreement. The discipline gap, the default parent dynamic, the different pictures of who the kid should become — these are marriage conversations that keep getting had as parenting arguments.
Two books. Both written for couples, not just parents.
What the Workbooks Cover
The discipline gap
One of you is firm, one is soft. You're not disagreeing about behavior — you're disagreeing about what kids need.
The default parent
One parent carries more. Both of you know it. The resentment is quiet but it's there.
What you're raising them toward
You have different pictures of who they should become. You've never said them out loud to each other.
The faith question
How much do you pass on? What do you insist on? What do you leave open? These answers need to come from both of you.
The marriage in the middle of it
Parenting can crowd out the marriage. How are you protecting what brought you here in the first place?
Two Workbooks
Raising Him
For couples raising boys. Covers: discipline, masculinity, emotional health, faith, and how to parent a son when you two have different ideas about what he needs.
Coming 2027 · $15 print / $27 digital
Raising Her
For couples raising girls. Covers: confidence, voice, safety, body image, faith, and how to raise a daughter without a script — together.
Coming 2027 · $15 print / $27 digital
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