TendTEND · BEFORE THE WEDDING
Six conversations. Before the vows.
An AI walks you and your partner through six premarital sessions — one question at a time. By text, by email, or together on screen. Free to start.
TendTEND · BEFORE THE WEDDING
An AI walks you and your partner through six premarital sessions — one question at a time. By text, by email, or together on screen. Free to start.
If you're in a season where your marriage feels like work — or you're about to make the biggest commitment of your life and want to get it right — Tend gives you a simple path through the conversations that actually matter. Six sessions. No therapist required. You go at your own pace, in whatever format fits your life. Most couples finish it feeling less alone and more honest with each other than they've been in years.
THE SIX SESSIONS
HOW IT WORKS
Pick your channel: text, email, or screen. Takes 60 seconds.
One session per week. Answer when you're ready.
Every session is saved. Share with your officiant or keep it for yourselves.
"Most couples prepare for the wedding. Almost nobody prepares for the marriage."
PICK YOUR CHANNEL
Text message
One question at a time. Reply when you're ready.
Weekly email
One session per week. Write longer answers.
Together on screen
Sit down together. Go through it live at tendmarriage.com/workbook.
Free. No app. 10% of proceeds support early childhood literacy through UWECA and the Imagination Library.
Start your sessions →Also from Tend
The Book
Tend: Before the Wedding
The workbook in print. Five conversations, a real process, and the questions most couples skip. Available Oct 18 at The Aisle Expo.
Live Workshop
Tend Workshop
90 minutes. Five conversations. In the room together — at The Aisle, your church, or online.
Ministry Couples
Tend — Ministry
For pastors and church staff couples who are overextended, under-supported, and trying to hold it together.
