Tend Workshop
Five conversations.
Better marriages.
A real, lighthearted workshop for couples who want to actually talk — without it feeling like homework or couples therapy.
Tend Workshop
A real, lighthearted workshop for couples who want to actually talk — without it feeling like homework or couples therapy.
The Five Conversations
Who You Are
What makes you tick. What shuts you down. The version of yourself your partner is actually marrying.
Money
Not a budget meeting — a real conversation about what money means to each of you.
What You Carry
The family patterns, the old wounds, the stories you brought in without realizing it.
Conflict
How you fight. What it means. What to do when it gets loud.
The Life You're Building
What you actually want. Not the wedding — the marriage.
Workshop Formats
A 90-minute live experience for engaged or married couples. You do the work together, in the room.
Available at The Aisle and other venues
Six sessions for a group of 4–8 couples. Facilitator guide included.
Premarital and marriage group formats
A Zoom cohort for 6 couples over 5 weeks. Matt facilitates. Workbook included.
Quarterly cohorts — space is limited
Drop your email and we'll send you the first session — Who You Are — along with a free Enneagram link. No sales. Just the conversation.
About the Facilitator
Matt spent a decade as a pastor doing premarital counseling, officiating weddings, and watching couples navigate the hard stuff — before, during, and after. He built Tend because he kept seeing couples who were ready to get married and completely unprepared to be married.
The workshop is the conversations he wishes every couple had. Real, practical, and about 90 minutes — which is less time than most couples spend picking a cake.